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21 April 2005 @ 03:20 pm
this just popped up in my email, from N.

in accordance with your wishes I have deleted your contact details from my phone and all previous messages to and from, together with any photos. all emails and email/web addresses are similarly disposed of and your zine is back on your desk.

if i don't talk to you please don't take offence. in light of your comments it is probably safest for me to say nothing.

and yes... it completely creeps me out that he had photos (he apparently took them with his camera phone, i knew this before but he wouldn't let me delete them). hopefully he really has gotten the message.

thank god after tomorrow it's a long weekend. i really need a break :(

ex_snowcanwa171 on April 21st, 2005 06:00 am (UTC)

Oh honey, that's great news! :D Looks like the words "sexual harassment" really did scare him off, with good reason! I bet he deleted all of that stuff (photos... *shudders* A. has pics of me too) because he was worried he might get caught with it!

*huge hugs* You did absolutely the right thing. And yay for a long weekend!

    scarlet's walkkisstheviolets on April 21st, 2005 06:06 am (UTC)
yes, it appears so! oh thank goodness. god, when i was reading his email and all the things he says he's deleted (emails, web addresses etcETC) i'm thinking... man. this guy sounds like a stalker.
ugh. thankgod he's realised i'm serious.

*hugs* thankyou again hon, i couldn't have done it without your support last night! xxx
i'd rather be a mystery: dear prudence (by ignited)mordainlove on April 21st, 2005 06:16 am (UTC)
i don't want to scare you further, but do not - at all - let any guard down. he's completely creepy and ... creepy people are reckless. ::hugs:: i worry about you, jade. i hope this is the end of it with him, because he sounds unsafe.

you're amazing and strong, though, and i'm terribly proud to hear how you told him to stop. ::cheers::
signora oriente: goodbye skirtplathsrevenge on April 21st, 2005 07:01 am (UTC)
well, it sounds like he has been a bit creeped out himself by the idea of getting in trouble for sexual harrassment. victory! hopefully he is serious about all of this and you will be left alone. ♥
   ++   Sparkle Of Life   ++sparkleoflife on April 21st, 2005 10:01 am (UTC)
Yay!!! =)
petracollarbone on April 21st, 2005 10:16 am (UTC)
good! he sounds very offended, though... the exceedingly cold & formal language... but the most important thing is that he got it :)
kys mig, jeg er danskjadey_mcshadey on April 21st, 2005 11:22 am (UTC)
Make sure you keep all of the emails and stuff. I'd even go so far as to send them all to an external account, in case he messes with your work computer.
.gauloise on April 21st, 2005 12:12 pm (UTC)
a nice weekend break is just what you need. that's so good he's staying away; just be careful he doesn't guilt trip you into being friends with him again jade. you've made the step, well done!
.gauloise on April 21st, 2005 12:12 pm (UTC)
and i agree with the comment above, make sure you keep a record of his harrassment in case you need to rely on it further on down the line.
Jen Renee ♥_fiveanddime on April 21st, 2005 12:26 pm (UTC)
that's the greatest news &hearts
(that's my main reason for disliking camera phones so much...who knows what people do with them & hopefully he'll never do it again)
remember to breatheturtles_path on April 21st, 2005 12:26 pm (UTC)
this is most excellent in a creepy sort of way!

Aubreystormvibrations on April 21st, 2005 12:52 pm (UTC)
I'm happy to hear that he finally has gotten the message, but I wouldn't let your guard down yet either and I'd definitely still keep copies of everything. Yuck.
* Sarwingedmuse on April 21st, 2005 02:22 pm (UTC)
very abbreviated story:

i acquired a stalker back in may 2004 & we went through a lot of shit, but he finally got the message. well, turns out we ended up in the same program & i vowed distance would be in hand. that didnt last as he found ways to contact me again through co-workers who didnt know the past story. i told him to leave me alone numerous times. he said he'd taken my contact information out of his phone & yadda. no! i had to bring him to work & tell him to his face to leave me alone & he apologized so much & said he would seriously leave me alone & yadda. even after that, he still didnt give up! i'm not telling you this to make you more creeped out, i'm telling you this because i want you to still be cautious of the situation & not let your guard down just because he said some words. i still keep my distance from him even though i'm pretty sure nothing will ever happen again like that because of the drastic measures taken to remedy, but ynever know! i learned that the insanely, incredibly hard way. just be cautious!
    scarlet's walkkisstheviolets on April 24th, 2005 06:24 am (UTC)
wow... that sounds scary :(
thankyou for telling me your story! :X
Fleenfleen on April 21st, 2005 02:24 pm (UTC)
congrats, girl, good work. youve shown strength and sensibility xoxo
Ivana Stabbitch_please on April 21st, 2005 04:00 pm (UTC)
Fucking prick. This guy gives me the creeps and I live in another state. Hey, relax during the long weekend, you deserve it.
jessicasea__secret on April 21st, 2005 04:02 pm (UTC)
GOOD FOR YOU. It sounds like he got the message and this was all you needed to do.
Kathee: bjork-slygidgetlike on April 21st, 2005 07:14 pm (UTC)
I'm so glad that it seems like he finally got the hint (even if the hint had to be a blatant message telling him to back off).

I'm really proud of how you handled all of this, you're such a strong person.

xoxo. Kathee
fructiferousfructiferous on April 21st, 2005 08:20 pm (UTC)
*huge hugs and spins you around*
i'm SO pleased. you've been so brave, and i'm so proud of you. hopefully this sticks! you deserve the day off. ;)
lovvvve yoooou!
onemoreyear on April 21st, 2005 11:59 pm (UTC)